Los Angeles Relationship Therapy – Fortify Your Connection with Dr. Harel Papikian

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“Love doesn’t make the world go round. Love is what makes the ride worthwhile." – Franklin P. Jones

At Dr. Harel Papikian’s Solo2Soulmate practice in Los Angeles, we specialize in helping couples rekindle their connection and overcome challenges that threaten their bond. With a compassionate and customized approach, Dr. Harel addresses communication barriers, trust issues, and emotional disconnection, empowering couples to build stronger, more fulfilling relationships. Rediscover love, harmony, and a partnership that thrives—you both deserve it.

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Meet Dr. Harel Papikian: Los Angeles' Relationship Therapy Expert

“Love isn’t just about finding someone to live with; it’s about finding someone you can’t imagine living without.”

– Rafael Ortiz.

Relationships often face unique challenges in the vibrant and fast-paced city of Los Angeles. Career aspirations, societal expectations, and the quest for personal identity can place immense strain on connections. Dr. Harel, a renowned couples therapist specializing in both heterosexual and LGBTQI+ relationships, has dedicated his career to helping individuals and couples navigate these pressures and build stronger, more meaningful relationships.

Many of his clients and even single friends often turn to him for guidance. “What about us, Harel?” they ask. “Do you have advice for those of us still searching for love?” Dr. Harel’s answer is consistent: Start with yourself. He believes that creating a fulfilling relationship begins with personal growth and self-reflection. Instead of waiting for the perfect partner to arrive, Dr. Harel encourages individuals to focus on becoming “relationship-fit,” so they’re ready to build a lasting connection when the right person comes along.

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Common Challenges

Drawing on years of experience, Dr. Harel has identified recurring patterns in the struggles that couples and individuals face. These include:


1.Communication Barriers

 

Miscommunication often leads to conflict. Dr. Harel teaches strategies for open, effective communication that promotes understanding and connection.


2.Unrealistic Expectations


Many people enter relationships with idealized notions of their partner. Dr. Harel helps reset these expectations, emphasizing acceptance and growth.


3.Emotional Triggers


Past experiences can resurface and disrupt relationships. By addressing these triggers, Dr. Harel helps clients break destructive cycles.


4.Balancing Independence and Togetherness


Successful relationships require a balance of personal autonomy and mutual support. Dr. Harel guides clients in achieving this equilibrium.

Addressing Unique Challenges in LGBTQI+ Relationships

As an advocate for the LGBTQI+ community, Dr. Harel understands the unique struggles that often accompany these relationships. Many LGBTQI+ individuals, particularly gay men, face shame-based trauma, internalized homophobia, or societal rejection, which can impact their ability to form healthy connections.

Through years of practice, Dr. Harel has witnessed the profound impact of these experiences. He provides a safe, judgment-free environment where clients can explore and heal from marginalization, rejection, and past trauma. His approach empowers LGBTQI+ clients to transform pain into strength, paving the way for authentic, loving relationships.

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Dr. Harel’s Expertise: Preparing Clients to Be “Relationship-Fit”

Dr. Harel believes being “relationship-fit” means being emotionally, mentally, and spiritually ready for the love and partnership one desires. His therapy sessions are designed to:

1.Heal Past Wounds


By addressing unresolved emotions, clients can release the weight of their past and embrace new beginnings.


2.Challenge Limiting Beliefs


Dr. Harel helps clients replace negative thoughts with empowering beliefs that foster self-worth and confidence.


3.Build Emotional Resilience


Life’s challenges are inevitable, but resilience ensures clients can navigate them while maintaining strong, healthy relationships.


4.Enhance Communication Skills


Clear and compassionate communication is at the heart of successful relationships. Dr. Harel works with clients to develop these essential skills.


5.Foster Vulnerability


True intimacy requires vulnerability. Dr. Harel creates a supportive space for clients to open up and connect authentically.

Supporting Your Journey Toward Healing and Connection

Relationships are not just about finding the right partner—they are about creating a connection rooted in mutual understanding and growth. Dr. Harel’s expertise lies in guiding clients to uncover their strengths, address their challenges, and build the love they deserve.
For LGBTQI+ individuals, this journey may include healing from shame, rejection, or internalized biases. While these challenges may seem daunting, Dr. Harel believes they offer an opportunity for profound transformation and deeper connections.

Comprehensive Relationship Services in Los Angeles

Dr. Harel’s relationship therapy services cater to the diverse needs of Los Angeles couples and individuals. These include:

 

1.Couples Therapy

 

Couples therapy helps with common issues, such as trust, communication, and intimacy, with the help of Dr. Harel Papikian. He tends to create an open conversation with compassion so that such couples feel free to approach their most sensitive issues without fear of judgment.

 

2.Pre-Marital Counseling

 

Dr. Papikian will prepare engaged couples about what to expect in marriage as they discuss the challenges of facing financial stress to differences in expectation and set a solid ground for a lifelong partnership when they will be on the same page before saying “I do.

 

3.Dating Coaching

 

Whether you’re navigating the world of online dating or building connections in person, Dr. Harel provides expert coaching for singles. With tailored advice, he helps clients build confidence, establish meaningful relationships, and avoid common pitfalls in today’s dating landscape.

 

4.Communication Skills Coaching

 

The basis of any healthy relationship is communication. Dr. Harel educates couples on the effective expression of needs, listening, and understanding of one another’s perspectives. He equips partners to overcome communication gaps, bridging them with mutual respect.

 

5.Conflict Resolution

 

It is impossible to avoid arguments, but Dr. Harel helps couples manage disagreements constructively. In practical strategies, he shows couples how to argue effectively, prevent resentment from arising, and find common ground even amid conflict.

Dr. Harel will focus his work on making your relationship goals the central point of every session.

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Dr. Harel’s Transformative ARM Method: A Path to Lasting Connection

In the heart of Los Angeles, where the demands of fast-paced urban living can strain even the strongest bonds, Dr. Harel offers a groundbreaking approach to relationship therapy through his ARM Method. Designed with care, empathy, and precision, the ARM Method addresses individual and shared challenges within a relationship, guiding couples toward greater harmony, understanding, and fulfillment.

In the heart of Los Angeles, where the demands of fast-paced urban living can strain even the strongest bonds, Dr. Harel offers a groundbreaking approach to relationship therapy through his ARM Method. Designed with care, empathy, and precision, the ARM Method addresses individual and shared challenges within a relationship, guiding couples toward greater harmony, understanding, and fulfillment.


The ARM Method unfolds in three carefully structured stages, each of which reflects Dr. Harel’s commitment to understanding and addressing the unique dynamics of every couple he works with:


1. Awareness: Seeing Through the Lens of Understanding


The first step in Dr. Harel’s process is creating a space where both partners feel heard and valued. Through meaningful conversations, he delves into the underlying patterns, triggers, and behaviors that influence the relationship. This stage is not rushed—it is a journey of discovery where Dr. Harel takes time to truly understand the nuances of the couple’s interactions, both as a unit and as individuals.


For each partner, this means exploring:
  • Personal histories and how past experiences shape present behaviors.
  • Core beliefs, fears, and emotional triggers that arise in the relationship.
  • Patterns in communication and conflict resolution that may perpetuate misunderstandings.

 

This stage is vital for shining a light on unseen issues that may be at the root of recurring conflicts. With Dr. Harel’s empathetic guidance, couples begin to recognize not only their partner’s challenges but also their own role in the dynamics of the relationship.


2. Release: Letting Go of Emotional and Relational Baggage


As the Awareness phase brings clarity, the next stage focuses on healing. Dr. Harel helps couples and individuals release the emotional baggage and unresolved issues that hinder their growth. This part of the journey is both delicate and transformative.


Dr. Harel’s process is unique in that he dedicates time to understanding the individual baggage each partner brings to the relationship. This includes past traumas, limiting beliefs, or lingering insecurities that may have nothing to do with the current relationship but significantly impact it.
Once individual concerns are addressed, Dr. Harel turns his attention to the couple’s shared baggage—those recurring themes or unresolved conflicts that weigh heavily on the relationship. By addressing both personal and relational challenges, he ensures that no stone is left unturned in the pursuit of healing.


This stage is marked by empathy, patience, and a deep respect for the vulnerabilities each partner shares. Couples often find this phase liberating, as they begin to let go of what no longer serves their relationship and open up space for renewal and trust.


3. Mastery: Building Skills for Long-Term Success


The final stage of the ARM Method is where transformation truly takes root. With newfound awareness and a lighter emotional load, couples are equipped to create a stronger foundation for their relationship.


Dr. Harel introduces practical tools and strategies tailored to the couple’s unique needs, ensuring they are equipped to:

  • Communicate openly and effectively, even about difficult topics.
  • Manage conflicts in a way that strengthens rather than divides.
  • Cultivate emotional intimacy and a deeper understanding of one another.
  • Set and achieve shared goals that align with their vision for the future.

Dr. Harel believes that the Mastery stage is not just about resolving current challenges—it’s about empowering couples to face future challenges with resilience and confidence. This phase focuses on creating a sustainable relationship dynamic that thrives even in the face of life’s uncertainties.

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Dr. Harel’s Patient-Centered Approach


What sets Dr. Harel apart is not just his expertise but his unwavering commitment to truly understanding the couples he works with. He doesn’t rush into solutions or impose one-size-fits-all strategies. Instead, he patiently listens to both partners, creating a safe and nonjudgmental environment where they can openly share their thoughts and feelings.


Dr. Harel’s approach is deeply empathetic. He recognizes that every couple is a unique blend of two individual journeys, each with its own set of triumphs, struggles, and aspirations. By addressing these individual stories first, he builds a foundation of trust and understanding that becomes the bedrock of the couple’s growth.


In his sessions, partners often describe feeling truly “seen” and “heard” for the first time. This validation is a crucial step in healing wounds and fostering connection.


Virtual Counseling Tailored for Los Angeles Couples


Recognizing the unique challenges of living in a bustling city like Los Angeles, Dr. Harel offers his therapy sessions online. Virtual counseling not only eliminates the stress of navigating LA traffic but also provides couples with the comfort and privacy of participating in sessions from their own space.
Through online therapy, Dr. Harel ensures his transformative ARM Method is accessible to couples across Los Angeles, no matter their schedules. This flexibility allows partners to engage in therapy without compromising their busy lifestyles, making it easier than ever to prioritize their relationship.

Dr. Harel – Transforming Relationships, One Couple at a Time

Why Choose Dr. Harel?


Dr. Harel’s compassionate approach and extensive experience make him a trusted guide for individuals and couples at all stages of their relationship journey. Whether you are single, in a relationship, or seeking to heal from past experiences, Dr. Harel offers the tools and support needed to foster lasting change.


With his guidance, clients can embrace their authenticity, overcome obstacles, and create fulfilling relationships that stand the test of time.


If you’re ready to take the first step toward a healthier, more meaningful relationship, Dr. Harel is here to help. Together, you can build the foundation for a future filled with love, connection, and personal growth.

Specialized Focus Areas

There are sometimes specific stressors to which certain relationships are subject, and Dr. Papikian provides specialized help in the following areas:

 

Entertainment Industry Couples:

Dealing with grueling schedules, media attention, and the peculiar demands of a particular profession.


Multicultural Relationships:

Helping people cross cultural boundaries to build understanding and respect.


LGBTQ+ Partnerships:

Therapy with LGBTQ+ couples is responsive to the issues and pleasures of the LGBTQ+ relationship.


High-Conflict Couples:

This can include techniques and methods for handling intense emotions and recurrent conflict.


Divorce Prevention:

When a couple is on the verge of divorce, therapy provides an opportunity to prevent the split and to heal trust and intimacy.

 

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Success Stories That Inspire

“My partner and I were going through difficult times in our relationship, but thanks to Dr. Harel our relationship is better than ever.


“Dr. Harel is great! He is able to listen and really get to the heart of the issue without judgment. I highly recommend him!”

The Outcomes of Counseling with Dr. Harel: What Will You Walk Away With?

Let’s be honest—if you’re here, you probably have questions swirling in your mind.

  • Why do we keep having the same fights?
  • Is it possible to rebuild the trust we’ve lost?
  • How do we find our way back to the connection we once had?
  • Or maybe… what’s stopping us from taking the next step together?These are

 

the kinds of thoughts that keep us up at night, and if you’re reading this, you’re already searching for answers. The good news? That’s exactly what Dr. Harel’s counseling is designed to give you.


So, what can you expect to walk away with?


Clarity: The “Aha!” Moments


You’ll finally understand why. Why certain patterns keep repeating, why emotions flare up the way they do, and why you sometimes feel stuck. Dr. Harel will guide you to uncover the dynamics at play in your relationship and help you truly see your partner—not just who they are but why they are the way they are. It’s like the pieces of a puzzle finally coming together.


Healing: Letting Go of the Weight


Maybe you’ve been carrying things you didn’t even realize were weighing you down—old hurts, unspoken resentments, or fears you didn’t know how to voice. Dr. Harel has this incredible ability to patiently listen, not just to what you’re saying, but to what’s beneath the surface. And when the time is right, he’ll help you let go of the baggage that’s been holding you back—both individually and as a couple.


Practical Tools: Your Relationship Toolkit


Ever feel like you’re trying to fix something but don’t have the right tools? That’s where Dr. Harel’s expertise comes in. Whether it’s learning how to communicate without things escalating or figuring out how to navigate tricky topics like trust or intimacy, you’ll leave with strategies that actually work.


Connection: Rediscovering Each Other


You know that spark you’re worried might be gone? It’s not. With the right guidance, you can reconnect with the person you fell in love with. And not just on the surface—Dr. Harel helps you tap into a level of trust, intimacy, and understanding that you might not have thought possible

 

A Plan for the Future


This isn’t just about fixing what’s broken; it’s about building something even stronger. By the end of your time with Dr. Harel, you’ll have a clear roadmap for your relationship—a plan that fits who you are as a couple and where you want to go together.


The Journey Starts Here


Counseling with Dr. Harel isn’t about quick fixes or generic advice. It’s about real, meaningful change. He takes the time to truly understand you and your partner—your fears, your hopes, your history. And from there, he helps you create a future that feels aligned, intentional, and deeply fulfilling.


If you’re ready to move past the questions, the doubts, and the frustrations, this is your invitation to take the next step. The answers are within reach—let Dr. Harel help you find them.


Because every relationship deserves a chance to thrive.
question & answers

Your Questions Answered

How often are sessions held?

Sessions are usually held weekly, but this can be changed depending on your pace and requirements.

Can we attend sessions virtually?

Yes, virtual sessions are available for couples who prefer the convenience of remote therapy.

Do both partners need to attend every session?

While joint sessions are optimal, individual sessions can be set to work on personal challenges to the relationship.

Is therapy confidential?

Absolutely. All sessions are conducted in a safe and confidential environment to guarantee privacy.

Take Action Today to Begin Your Journey to Healing

Getting Started

If you’re ready to take the first step on your healing journey, here’s how you can begin:

Schedule a free consultation to learn more about Dr. Harel’s approach.
Contact Dr. Harel’s office via phone or email to set up a complimentary consultation or a first session.

 

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This first step starts your healing journey: call Dr. Harel today to leave the depression behind. 

 

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